How Can You Help Your Kids Navigate Your Divorce?

On Behalf of | Aug 25, 2023 | Family Law |

Major events in the family will impact every single member, especially when the parents go through a divorce. The end of a marriage brings changes for everyone, and each individual will handle these changes in different ways. As a parent, you understand the importance of providing your children with the support and assistance they need as they walk through this time of change. One important step for Ohio parents is to acknowledge their feelings and provide the guidance they need.

The right approach for helping your children through a divorce depends on their ages, their maturity levels, their ability to navigate change and more. As you consider the terms of your divorce order and what they will mean for your family, it is beneficial for you to make choices that will truly be in the best interests of the kids long-term. This, and helping them deal with strong emotions, can set your kids up for post-divorce success and well-being.

Leading by example

If you want to help your children navigate the changes they are experiencing in a positive way, you will have to set that example for them. It is much more difficult to provide emotional stability for the kids if you are acting irrationally, with anger or aggressively. You may have to set aside your own temporary emotions and focus on what is best for the kids. The following are ways you can help your kids and guide them through this difficult time:

  • Understand that they will experience difficult emotions, and they may act out, go through behavioral changes and have a sense of grief.
  • Keep any ongoing arguments with the other parent away from the children, and don’t make them feel as if they are in the middle.
  • Do not use the children as messengers as this can make them feel like they are in the middle or need to take sides.
  • Get your children professional help if you think it would be beneficial for them to see a therapist or counselor.

As a parent, your job is to provide your kids with the tools they need for long-term stability and security. In addition to emotional support, you can also help them by deciding on a custody and visitation order that is suited to their needs. As you consider these important choices and more, you will benefit from having experienced guidance at every step.